Today is your birthday, Marc! September 30th! It’s a beautiful time of the year! One of my friends sent me a text this morning, ‘Happy Birthday, Marc!’ That gesture and another’s early text just made me feel such gratitude for the great friends I have. Marc’s best friend also just texted that he’d ‘talked to…
Month: September 2016
The Defendants Attitudes
Some things seem so private or too harsh to share. I’m still dealing with pain so deep or pervasive that I ‘don’t wish to go there’. I’m still trying to wrap my head around what kind of life is going on with the defendants as well. Even though Marc’s case is technically solved, it’s still…
Allowing Safe People To Mourn With You
There are certain life experiences that are memorialized in our minds and hearts, and death is one of them. Many of us consider death as being very sacred, like birth or marriage! Religious communities commemorate them with ritual. Some deaths we know are coming, but others are so unexpected or violent. In certain cases,…
More Arrests
I was having a nice Saturday morning a week ago when I got a hunch to google the ‘3rd’ suspect, one of the first two arrested in Marc’s case. Kinda freaky to find out he’d been arrested twice in the last 3 months. It doesn’t seem like he’s getting his act together! Three young men…
Son, Why Can’t U Come Back
Son, Why Can’t U Come Back I lost u two years ago …